And I love it! The Buenos Aires schedule is right up my alley. Dinner is eaten later here than in the United States, and it’s not uncommon for people to go out for coffee or ice cream at 11 or 12. Bedtime? Let’s just say my natural clock is in heaven here.
The tendency to gather late at night affects the rest of the day’s schedule, leaving more time for socializing, napping, relaxing, etc. between the work day and dinnertime. Sure, some might argue that the extra hours of sleep at night have their share of positive side effects – beauty sleep, de-stressing, physical health… I’d beg to differ, however. I’ve never been a huge advocate of the prescribed 8-hours of sleep of night, and Buenos Aires is simply reinforcing this. People aren’t rushing to get to bed! Instead, they’re happy to sit and talk for hours, take their time at meals, make time for friends and family, and enjoy personal space. A lot of people do this in the United States, especially in small towns, but I think the tendency – especially in cities – is to prioritize work and sleep over personal sanity and valuable relationships. I’m extremely guilty of it: When given the choice between studying one hour more for a test, going out for late-night Wendy’s with my sister, or just getting an extra hour of sleep, I sadly would say that the random family outing would probably be my last choice. The pressure to perform well at school and on the job can be so overwhelming that it’s particularly tempting to take family and friends for granted. Not so much the case here.
I’m sort of going off on a tangent here, but I have really been impressed by the high regard with which the people here treat relationships. My madre’s ex-husband, their son, son’s wife and four-year-old grandchild meet every Sunday afternoon (ALL afternoon) for tea and conversation. Family ties are strong and always a priority. Observing this here has been a neat wake-up call for me, making me realize how degraded family structures have become in the United States. I’m lucky to come from a family that embodies the “kin comes first” spirit, but I think that it’s increasingly more difficult to run across this attitude in mainstream America. When we stay up late, it’s generally for work, studies, or a favorite television show. Here, people stay up late to go on midnight strolls and catch up face-to-face with friends. Personally, I find it healthy and well worth the difficulty waking up to the alarm in the morning.
More in line with the title of this entry, I’ll give a quick update on Buenos Aires nightlife. Any guidebook will tell you that people stay out LATE here. Fair statement, although I might argue that it’d be better to write that people stay out EARLY. As in six or seven in the morning. People are still arriving in clubs at five! It’s absurd, but kinda cool! It’s living in the moment at its finest, and I’m excited to have until December to take advantage of the extended waking hours. Naturally, this means sleeping in later on Saturdays and Sundays. Once again, this has been just fine by my natural clock.
Speaking of late nights and sleeping in… Since I can’t exactly sleep in tomorrow morning, I’d better tie up this blog entry. Our classes officially begin tomorrow, and I’m really excited about the material. Spanish classes will be particularly relevant, as I am in great need of a refresher in castellano grammar! ¡Buenas noches, Buenos Aires!
**I wrote this blog at 1 AM on Sunday evening (8/31). No Wi-Fi in the apartment, so I’m posting on Monday (9/1) morning!**
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